Sunday, May 3, 2009
[ ]----> my thoughts
Now, at first glance is seems that this should have been demoralizing to us, it should have sent us all into a tailspin. Yet the opposite was true. Knowledge is power, and more importantly, knowledge saves us time.[ Really? ok this sentence is lyk offending sum ppl. ] I realized that from that day forward I would be spared hours and hours of waiting by the phone. [ i M that kinda of person O.o bt its 4 fun] hours and hours of obssesing with my girlfriends, hours and hours of just hoping his mixed messages really meant " I'm in love with you and want to be with you." [OOOOOOOOOOOOOOKKKKKKK] Greg reminded us that we are all beautiful, smart, funny women, and we shouldn't wasting our time figuring out why a guy isn't callingus. As Greg put it, we shouldn't waste the pretty.
It's hard. We taught that in life, we should try to look on the bright side to be optimistic. [ lyk duh ] Not in this case. In this case, look on the dark side. [ dark side? ] Assume rejection first. Assume you're the rule, not the exception. It's intoxicatingly liberating. But we also know it's not an easy concept. Because this is what we do : We go out with someone, we get excited about them, and then they do something that midly disappoint us. [ Not really... Ok mayb sumtimes ]then we go into hyper-excuse mode for weeks or possibly months, because the last thing we want to think is that this great man that we are so excited about is in the process of turning into a creep. [ So your saying i should stop making excuses? ]. We try to come up with some explanation for why they're behaving that way; any explanation that's the truth: He's just not that into me. [ ok now my brain hurts its not that i dun understand its just this sounded more lyk a quiz 2 me]
[ HEEEEELP MEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!]
By Liz Tuccilo
Love,
Crystal
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